Sheperdia canadensis

female  flowers, and indeed  on the soapberry bush by the poplar where the swing used to be.

male flowers

female soapberry bush

male soapberry bush

May 21 2017, in the yard

Geocaulon lividum

the false toadflax is blooming, May 16 2017.
This one found at teapot ponds, but it is very common around here, and i saw it coming into bloom the last few days.
I call it timberberry,
but it's prettiest name is northern comandra
 comandra meaning hairy calyx lobes